Something To Think About On A Sunday by Mitch Santell
George Harrison had a profound influence on me more than the other 3 Beatles.
George Harrison, the Beatles’ lead guitarist and the composer of several of the group’s most beautiful songs including “While My Guitar Gently Weeps” and “Something,” died Thursday at a friend’s home in Los Angeles. He was 58.
Mr. Harrison had surgery for throat cancer in 1998 and was treated for lung cancer and a brain tumor this year. He lived in Friar Park, a Victorian mansion in Henley-on-Thames, England, and had a home in Hana, Hawaii.
His wife, Olivia, and son, Dhani, 24, were with him when he died at the home of Gavin De Becker, a longtime friend.
“He left this world as he lived in it, conscious of God, fearless of death, and at peace, surrounded by family and friends,” the Harrison family said in a statement. “He often said, `Everything else can wait but the search for God cannot wait,’ and `love one another.’ “
(Originally posted in 2018 and reposted today with revised updates August 28, 2019).
America is in a transitional place right now because of the severe cognitive dissonance within its own population, and this trait is even worse within the “Truth Community.”
The level of disagreement within the truth community makes it very difficult for me as a producer to have an authentic conversation or sincere dialogue with people who claim to be “truthers.”
Any major truth show broadcast, podcast, live stream via YouTube and/or any other platform is going to attract a massive amount of shills and trolls so you will need to be careful.
There is before 9/11 and after 9/11. You are living in a post 9/11 world.It is no different for those of us who were around during the Kennedy Assassination or the Vietnam war.
God gave you two ears so whatever you do always listen more than you talk (unless of course, you are hosting a radio show ~ then you need to open your mouth!!
Coming to the truth is a very personal experience. We all come to this point in our own way.
How did you wake up? I woke up as a 10-year-old boy in 1967 when I looked at the cover of Sgt. Peppers Lonely Hearts Club Band and noticed that the guy on the cover was not Paul McCartney.
Here is Paul McCartney with David Frost.
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What Is The Point Of This All?
The point is that we have all been lied too. The Lie is different at every level, and you will soon discover what works for you in your own research is foreign to someone else.
Along the way, I have uncovered great research and authentic discoveries. I have placed some links below to get you started.
This post was written for you. You must have known that something was wrong regarding how our world works or you would not be here. That is my take.
I’ll have more to share with you soon, so stay tuned!
In the meantime, here is a video clip of Paul’s replacement.
Thanks for dropping by and checking in! As I share with you more specifically about the inner workings of this all, I look forward to your feedback! Okay, time for me to get back to editing audio!*
*Some Great Further Paul is Dead Research:
The Winged Beatle:
The Winged Beatle was a documentary that blew my mind. I first had the opportunity of watching it when I lived in New Zealand.
There was something strange about this movie. What was it? It was too Beatlesque, too well produced and the editing reminded me a lot of the Beatles Anthology Beatles Series that was released by Apple & Capitol Records back in the 1990s.
It runs out that The Winged Beatle was to be the first part of a three-part series on the replacement of Paul.
The film and the soundtrack were beautifully and eloquently put together by Billy Martin. Mr. Martin is a songwriter, musician, producer, and filmmaker in 2010.
During 2010 there was a very dynamic discussion group directly on FaceBook going back and forth with clues. There was a 19-year-old on the FaceBook group back in 2010 who figured out that Paul’s replacement might have even been directly involved in clearing “The Winged Bea, le” for Release.
The Winged Beatle is now offline, and I was able to find this small 13 minute 58-second clip.
There were thousands of us globally that were waiting for the next installment to come out. Guess what? It never did because of Billy Martin receiving a letter from McCartney himself with a threat to stop the release of the film. Personally, I reached out to email Mr. Martin, and he wrote to me directly. We probably exchanged about half a dozen emails before being out of touch permanently. The film TheRevelAtion2012 was never cleared for release so we will never see it!
This was the original text on The Winged Beatle website that is now offline:
Beetle with an A – Magic with a K
TheRottenApple2010 – TheWingedBeatle is the first part in the ARE3RA trilogy leading up to TheRevelAtion2012. The Winged Beatle was released September 11, 2010.
Can you merge your private self with your public self? Can you step away from your own education and programming to see and feel more?
Yesterday was a most exciting day as I talked at length for over an hour with a listener of Zeph Daniel. What became very obvious to me within 10 minutes of being on the phone with this gentlemen is how divided America is in 2019. Can you say another civil war in 2024?
For those who read AfterHollywood.Online regularly, I’ve openly told you in numerous blog postings that you need to step away from “labels” and the “left/right” agenda.
There is only one way to blow out the New World Order which by the way is already here.
What do you do?
Answer: Vote with your money.
Why do I say that?
Answer:The purpose of 9/11 was to turn America from a constitutional republic into an empire.
Post-September 11th, all of a sudden you had to take off your shoes at the airport, empty your purse and your pockets as well as turn in all of your plastic bottles. Right?
While this was going on, I kept thinking to myself “American’s aren’t going to put up with this, they need to stop buying American Airlines and United Airlines plane tickets until they stop this stuff. Then the Government ramped it up by making people walk through scanners and then they had people from the TSA feeling up your crotch all in the name of safety.
Look what happened to the Gillette Company because men fought back:
Razor brand Gillette says it is “shifting the spotlight from social issues to local heroes” after an ad delving into “toxic masculinity” caused a customer backlash.
The new ad, which launched last week, stars Australian firefighter and personal trainer Ben Ziekenheiner. “I’ve been a firefighter for 19 years,” Mr Ziekenheiner says in the ad…
…In January, Gillette sparked an online firestorm and boycott threats with an ad about the #MeToo movement challenging men to “shave their toxic masculinity”. The ad, which depicted various scenes of men bullying and catcalling women, asked, “Is this the best a man can get? Is it?”
The “We Believe” ad was labelled by some in the media as an “attack on men”, but others praised the brand for starting a “conversation”. In May, Gillette followed up with an ad featuring a father teaching his transgender son how to shave for the first time.
While the “First Shave” ad was generally well received, it was widely seen as Gillette doubling down on its push into social issues. In response to one Facebook comment, the company said, “We believe brands play a role in influencing culture and have a responsibility to use their voice for good.”
Pressed on whether Gillette would continue to talk about divisive issues like toxic masculinity, Mr Airan repeated, “We will continue to represent men at their best. This is our purpose and has been our purpose consistently for 118 years and that is not changing.”
All I hear all day long is how people just “Hate Trump.” President Donald J. Trump was a darling of the media and was created by them because the man is mediagenic. Obama was just as mediagenic as Trump and had this way of talking where he sounded great, but he didn’t say anything. Hey, if you don’t like something, don’t buy it!
The bottom line of this blog posting is that you can vote with your wallet!
I’ll leave you with one final thing. Ready?
Here are the top six benefits of keeping an open mind!
FREEDOM FROM CONTROL
An open mind frees you from having to be in complete control of everything you experience. By allowing for new points of view and new experiences, you open yourself up to new thoughts, and you challenge the beliefs you currently have. While this might sound a bit unnerving (particularly if you feel very strongly about your beliefs), it’s actually quite liberating to experience the world with an open mind.
NEW, LIBERATING EXPERIENCES
Keeping your mind open to new ideas almost always keeps your heart open to new experiences. This doesn’t mean you’re going to engage in acts that counter your current beliefs, but it does mean you’re likely to experience things you’ve never encountered before, and these new experiences will either help shift your current beliefs or remind you why those values are so essential to who you are.
Vulnerability sounds intimidating, but it’s actually one of the greatest things you can experience — and it’s often the result of having an open mind. By opening your mind to the world around you (and others’ points of view), you’re admitting that there are possibilities you may not have considered before. This admission — while terrifying at times — is liberating and exhilarating.
Mistakes probably sound like something you don’t want to have more of in your life, but they’re, in fact, a wonderful side effect of opening your mind. Striving to see life from others’ perspectives allows you to not only recognize potential mistakes you’ve made in the past, but also to be open to the idea that you may make more mistakes in the future. Mistakes are part of life, and the acceptance of them is one of the greatest benefits of open-mindedness.
An open mind provides a platform on which you can build, piling new idea on top of old. It allows you to learn and experience new things, and these experiences can build on (and enhance) old believes. Every experience you have strengthens who you are and what you believe in, but it’s very difficult to experience novel things if you don’t keep an open mind.
Those who are open-minded have the greatest confidence. Why? Because they possess a strong sense of self. They are not confined by their own believes, but, instead, are open to their own values, as well as those of others. And the more open-minded they continue to be, the more they come to understand themselves and the world around them. If you want to be confident, stay open-minded.
Even with the knowledge of these brilliant benefits, keeping an open mind can be a challenge. For some, it comes as effortlessly as breathing. For others, it may be something they have to work hard to attain. This often has a lot to do with how you were raised (as well as what your personality type is), but regardless of your background or personal traits, don’t give up on open-minded thinking. There are so many advantages to living life with an open mind, and the effort it takes to cultivate open-mindedness will be well worth the rewards you will reap.
Make this Your Day and Screw The World If Others Don’t Get You!
Analog Remaster/ Digital Stereo From The Motion Picture: Jungle Fever (c)1991 UMG/ Universal Music @ All rights reserved.
This is fun day Yours and my day This is fun day, dee ooh, wee ooh This is fun day On a fine day When the air is filled with tweeting birds that sing together in the sun This is your day Yours and my day When you feel the joy of children playing, laughing from dust till dawn On a day like this you share your joy with everyone Share your peace, and share your joy, and share your love
This is fun day On a fine day When you feel the urge of getting up to start-up with the break of dawn This is your day Yours and my day When you turn on your radio and hear the DJ playing your favorite song On a day like this not even bad can rub you wrong Cause you say it’s okay cause it’s your day
I’m gonna go out to the park Where you feel the joy in every heart That’s what I need to start each day off right Oh, I’ll find a place for you and me Underneath the shade of a lover’s tree Fun day should be each day in all our lives
This is fun day Yours and my day This is fun day, dee ooh, wee ooh
This is love day A celebration A day on every calendar that’s set aside for everyone to give This is your day Such a fun day I cannot believe a day like this has come that’s if this really is I’m so very proud to say that for this day I’ve lived To see your peace, to see your joy, and to see your love
I’m gonna go out to the park Where you feel the joy in every heart That’s what I need to start this day off right
Oh, I’ll find a place for you and me Underneath the shade of a lover’s tree Fun day should be each day in all our lives
This is love day A celebration A day on every calendar that’s set aside for everyone to give
Further Observations On What & How We Can Be Happy by Mitch Santell
There are so many of us out there who have panic, anxiety, depression, PTSD, or something even more distressing.
The reason you feel this way is that you have you may be a bit “confused” with where our society is going. Believe me, I understand this, and it’s why I dumped Facebook.
Now, I never thought I would write a commentary about a Reality Talk Show, but I am going to do it. Why? As an illustration as to why most people either can’t commit, won’t commit or don’t even know what they stand for.
My Godmother was married 9 times. Her daughter, my 3rd cousin, was married 7 times. I have been married once as were my parents (my side of the family) and grandparents (my side of the family). My other cousin was divorced once after 7 years and remarried for a second marriage until his wife passed on from Cancer after 30 years.
This last season of The Bachelor with Hannah Brown was like no other that I ever saw. Now mind you, I got rid of cable TV in 1995 so to sign up for a “trial” of Hulu (a streaming service that competes with Netflix and HBO), I had to be intrigued.
It was amusing watching Hannah Brown consistently make bad decisions.
The dynamics of relationships between men and women have never been more complicated than they are now, and I’ll give you some basics to start with.
First, we are living in a society that is driven by social media and algorithms.
Second, most people don’t know what it was like to be alive without an iPhone, Samsung, or any brand of smartphone connected to their hip.
Third, everyone is connected, but no one is communicating.
Happiness Is This:
1). You simply make a decision to be happy.
2). You make a decision to work on yourself more instead of gossiping and blaming other people.
3). You let go of the need to worry about what other people think.
4). You let go of the labels.
5). You re-invent yourself by getting rid of people who don’t get you or don’t allow you to be You.
Authentic Is This:
1). Letting Go Of The Need To Be Right.
2.) Letting Go Of Any Assumptions Of How Things Are Going To Turn Out.
3). Letting Go Of Any Expectations.
Staying Grounded Is This:
1). Take off your socks and shoes twice a day and go barefoot on the grass or dirt.
2). Make sure that you are hydrating because most people never drink enough water.
3). Find passion in simple things that make your heart sing.
Why didn’t I write more about Hannah Brown’s screw-ups on The Bachelor?
Answer: Because that wasn’t the purpose of this blog posting….the posting was to get you happier by getting you to think about you.
Only You will know where life needs to take you and if you are like a lot of my followers and readers, you don’t live in the USA. For me? That has been the single most profound discovery that I have made about myself since returning from New Zealand in 2013.
What is that?
That everything I learned has affected me here in America and I can never go back to being that person that I was when I exited in June of 2013.
Now onto to something deeper I want you to think about……..
According To Alan Watts, Happiness Is NOT the Meaning of Life.
Listen to this audio and read the transcription below for the greater meaning.
Let’s suppose that you were able every night to dream any dream you wanted to dream.
And that you could, for example, have the power within one night to dream 75 years of time or any length of time you wanted to have.
And you would naturally as you began on this adventure of dreams, you would fulfill all your wishes, you would have every kind of pleasure.
And after several nights of 75 years of total pleasure each, you would say, Wow, that was pretty great. But now let’s, let’s have a surprise.
Let’s have a dream, which isn’t under control.
Well, something is going to happen to me that I don’t know what it’s going to be. And you will dig that and come out of that and say, Wow, that was a close shave, wasn’t it.
And then you will get more and more adventurous and you will make further and further Gamble’s as to what you would dream. And finally, you would dream where you are now you would dream the dream of living the life that you are actually living today.
That would be within the infinite multiplicity of choices you would have of playing that you weren’t God.
This means that you’re not victims of a scheme of things of a mechanical world, or of an autocratic God.
The life you’re living is what you put yourself into only you don’t admit it. Because you want to play the game that it’s happened to you.
Because if you play life on the supposition that you’re a helpless little puppet got involved. Or if you play it on the supposition that it’s a frightful, serious risk, and that we really ought to do something about it and so on. It’s a drag.
There’s no point in going on living unless we make the assumption that the situation of life is optimal. And it makes you realize you see how – how great things are. So in this idea that everybody is fundamentally the ultimate reality. Not God in a politically kingly sense, but God in the sense of being the self, that deep down basic, whatever there is, and you’re all that only you’re pretending you’re not.
There is a new breed of American that sincerely knows everything that is happening and can’t bring themselves to knock on their neighbor’s door to speak the truth.
If you think you have Freedom of Speech in America look at the absolute constant attack on President Donald J. Trump.
How did a national treasurer as a successful entrepreneur and hit TV show star end up being attacked?
Please invest a few moments to watch and listen to what is truly happening in America. The American Press is so bad that there are more Americans who own Pet Chickens, more Practicing Witches, and Prostitutes than those watching CNN.
Characteristics of a Dystopian Society
• Propaganda is used to control the citizens of society.
• Information, independent thought, and freedom are restricted.
• A figurehead or concept is worshipped by the citizens of the society.
• Citizens are perceived to be under constant surveillance.
• Citizens have a fear of the outside world.
Types of Dystopian Controls
Most dystopian works present a world in which oppressive societal control and the illusion of a perfect society are maintained through one or more of the following types of controls:
• Corporate control: One or more large corporations control society through products, advertising, and/or the media. Examples include Minority Report and Running Man.
• Bureaucratic control: Society is controlled by a mindless bureaucracy through a tangle of red tape, relentless regulations, and incompetent government officials. Examples in the film include Brazil.
• Technological control: Society is controlled by technology—through computers, robots, and/or scientific means. Examples include The Matrix, The Terminator, and I, Robot.
• Philosophical/religious control: Society is controlled by philosophical or religious ideology often enforced through a dictatorship or theocratic government.
The Dystopian Protagonist
• often feels trapped and is struggling to escape.
• questions the existing social and political systems.
• believes or feels that something is terribly wrong with the society in which he or she lives.
• helps the audience recognizes the negative aspects of the dystopian world through his or her perspective.
What will you do to ensure that future generations don’t turn out to be like the movie 1984?
When I saw this today I had to share it because in the end we are either pissed off at someone or someone is pissed off at us.
“Sorry bud, but that’s the way the cookie crumbles.”
If you’ve ever said this, any version of this douchey sentence or idea, you have succeeded in adequately pissing someone the f*ck off.
Sometime, somewhere, you didn’t give two sh*ts about anyone else’s feelings and worried solely about your own. You could see the other side — that person’s side — and you still didn’t give a damn.
Well, good for you. Way to stick to your guns and not give a second thought to someone else’s opinion or overly-dramatic feelings. Way to stick up for yourself.
Way to be an assh*le — I’m sorry, but if we all weren’t assh*les at one time or another, then the world would be run by a select few, and that’s so much worse.
It’s give and take. Sometimes you just need to be one, and sometimes you just need to learn to take one. Like oral sex, the system works best when we’re rotating turns.
Because if you’re never the assh*le, if you’re never pissing someone off, you’re just always the one getting sh*t on.
I can tell you from personal experience, once you start learning how to piss people off, life changes. Once you learn to stick up for yourself, to stop succumbing to the opinions of others, you see the other side.
It’s a side of plans you actually want, dinner at places you like to eat and limited time spent doing favors for people you hate.
Of course, I’m not saying that you should try to piss people off. Deliberately trying to be an assh*le is just poor form and those people are the ones who usually get what they deserve in the end.
But when you’re in a situation and it’s you or someone else, that person’s feelings or yours, your time or someone else’s, sometimes you just need to say f*ck you, I’m choosing me.
The day you stop caring about what other people think and start caring more about how you feel is the day you blossom into the assh*le you were destined to be. And trust me, life’s a lot better once you stop giving a sh*t.
IF THEY’RE REALLY YOUR FRIENDS, THEY’LL GET OVER IT
Pissing people off isn’t the same as f*cking them over. It’s like a pinch over a punch. People piss one another off — that’s how we learn who is worth tolerating and who isn’t worth forgiving.
If you did made a mistake or had to do something for yourself (without truly screwing them over), they should be able to understand that.
If they are true friends then they understand that sometimes we need to be selfish, sometimes we can’t worry about their opinions before our own.
IF THEY’RE THAT SENSITIVE, YOU DON’T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH THEM ANYWAY
Sensitive people are like bees — they sting once and die. No one wants to live life surrounded by weak people whose sole purpose in life is to find something to cry about.
A Commentary That I Have Been Thinking About For A Long Time By Mitch Santell
The all-out battle that is brewing here in Washington, D.C. is simply a circus. The sooner that you turn off your TV (Tell-Lie-Vision), the sooner you will get your life back.
Even the hearings in Washington D.C. don’t make sense anymore.
America has moved way past the feminist movement with a public discourse of dialogue that makes most American’s feel disgusted.
Eastern Europe supplied millions of new citizens into the USA at the turn of the century back in 1900. Now we look ahead to 2019 and what do we see? We have a storm that is brewing. The name-calling and division in our nation’s Capital here I believe are simply on purpose and too upset people.
These democratic extremists want to wipe European Americans, especially the “White Ones” off the map.
The majority of women that I know who are out in the world are miserable. I have never experienced anything like it. Men are walking away from long term relationships at astounding rates simply because these men have no rights.
One person on YouTube wrote this:
Women finally realize feminism has failed. They see themselves becoming a ever increasing minority in their own country aging looks are eroding fast and they know there will not be SS## when they retire. They don’t have kids and/or not enough to take care of them. What is even worse is the way they raised the kids they do have.
I suggest surrogacy and adoption of white babies, you may not have a place in the white future when you become a minority.
Chemtrails which are known to contain heavy metals such as barium oxide and aluminum oxide, are known to be a bigger problem than once thought. Others have researched chemtrails at great length, but may not have known about the negative effects on ecology, the environment and human beings which have recently been discovered.
This essay is meant to create awareness, not panic.
Have you ever been standing at a gas station pump, waiting for your vehicle to fill up out in the country in what you thought was clean, fresh air? Did you also notice the top surface of the pump housing may have been covered with rough grey dust? Much of that material can be from chemtrail fallout from aluminum and barium oxide. What goes up, must come down. And all of us are breathing it. Sickness almost always visits communities within a 1-3 days after the spraying has taken place. Headaches, coughs that won’t go away, sore throats and head and upper chest congestion are not uncommon. Your body does not want this metal embedding itself in your respiratory tract. It becomes an irritant.
Recent research shows that aluminum oxide which is a heavy metal, can do far more damage to human beings than once thought. The metal can also affect plants, and is far more insidious than once thought.
EFFECTS OF ALUMINUM OXIDE ON HEART AND LUNGS
A paper written by Wardle, Lee, Akester, and Braithwaite at Thiokol Corp. warns of hazards from aluminum oxide nanoparticles. In their paper, they express concern that epidemiological studies suggest an association between inhaled ambient particulate material and adverse cardiopulmonary (heart and lungs) effects. The mechanisms related to this toxicity are still unclear. Their paper shows methods to control ultra-fine particles, to limit inhaled nanoparticles in humans.
EFFECTS OF ALUMINUM ON ECOLOGY
Is the government silent about the negative effects of aluminum? From the EPA website, we read the following about acid effects and aluminum. The 22-page paper contains numerous references to scientific papers which are available at the EPA website:
“Acid deposition can occur in the wet or dry form and can adversely affect aquatic resources through the acidification of water bodies and watersheds. Acidification of aquatic ecosystems is of primary concern because of the adverse effects of low pH and associated high aluminum concentrations on fish and other aquatic organisms.”
“Aluminum which can be toxic to organisms is soluble at low pH and is leached from watershed soils by acidic deposition. Acidification may affect fish in several ways. The direct physiological effects of low pH and high aluminum include increased fish mortality, decreased growth, and decreased reproductive potential. The mechanism of toxicity involves impaired ion regulation at the gill. Population losses occur frequently because of recruitment failure, specifically due to increased mortality of early life stages. Changes at other trophic levels may affect fish populations by altering food availability.”
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Now let’s focus on a solution, shall we? Here is a video I found today. There are a lot of people that I know here in Southern California that are having issues with coughing. Maybe this will help. Take a look at the video and then click on the link. No, I don’t sell this product but I do think it may help. Peace to you all.
Commentary About Friendships and Relationships by Mitch Santell
Connections with people are very funny things, aren’t they? Sometimes you meet someone and you feel like you have known them their whole life while others are more like passing ships in the night. Throughout our life, we meet so many people who are either positive, negative or neutral to who we are.
The ability to maintain friendships has never been easier because of social media and yet I know so many who are hurting, it comes down to breaking bread together. In our family, we always broke bread together. From the time I was small, I was even taught the importance of breaking bread in business.
When we were younger, we cycled through our interactions quickly: best friends, friend groups, relationships even. As we mature, unimportant relationships and friendships have fallen away and the few close ones have withstood the test of time. Along the way, you’ve probably let go of someone you never thought you’d say goodbye to. You’ve probably let go of someone you never wanted to say goodbye to.
It’s easy feel possessive of the people you love. The two of you have spent so much time together, bonded over silly and not so silly things, made a deep connection in a world full of so many people. So when it ends — whether it’s mutual, for good reasons, or just a slow fade — it just doesn’t feel right. But it happened and you’ll come to terms with it eventually. I never like the term letting them go or moving on. Especially since I loved them so deeply, it just didn’t make sense to me. Over the years I’ve realized that it’s not cutting someone off, it’s just loving them quieter.
Loving someone is usually loud. It’s tight hugs, late night calls, laughing candid photos, “I miss you” texts in caps. Learning to love quieter is actually not doing these things that once showed them that you care. It’s actively not doing these things, because you care. You care about their well-being, and allowing them to walk away if all has been said and there is nothing more to salvage. So you begin loving them from a distance.
You start with texting them less. You get the urge to when you pass by their favorite coffeeshop, see someone with the same dress as them, mundane things that used to be normal. You stop liking their social media posts or even looking at their feed because it just hurts. You want to be angry. You want to scream and yell and make them understand how much it all just sucks, but you know deep down it’s only because you care so much. So swallow that anger, it’ll pass.