Happiness Is A Simple Solution Part 2

Further Observations On What & How We Can Be Happy by Mitch Santell

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There are so many of us out there who have panic, anxiety, depression, PTSD, or something even more distressing.

The reason you feel this way is that you have you may be a bit “confused” with where our society is going. Believe me, I understand this, and it’s why I dumped Facebook.

Now, I never thought I would write a commentary about a Reality Talk Show, but I am going to do it. Why? As an illustration as to why most people either can’t commit, won’t commit or don’t even know what they stand for.

My Godmother was married 9 times. Her daughter, my 3rd cousin, was married 7 times. I have been married once as were my parents (my side of the family) and grandparents (my side of the family). My other cousin was divorced once after 7 years and remarried for a second marriage until his wife passed on from Cancer after 30 years.

This last season of The Bachelor with Hannah Brown was like no other that I ever saw. Now mind you, I got rid of cable TV in 1995 so to sign up for a “trial” of Hulu (a streaming service that competes with Netflix and HBO), I had to be intrigued.

It was amusing watching Hannah Brown consistently make bad decisions.


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Hannah Brown and Peter Weber Taking Off In A Private Plane.

The dynamics of relationships between men and women have never been more complicated than they are now, and I’ll give you some basics to start with.

First, we are living in a society that is driven by social media and algorithms.

Second, most people don’t know what it was like to be alive without an iPhone, Samsung, or any brand of smartphone connected to their hip.

Third, everyone is connected, but no one is communicating.



Happiness Is This:

1). You simply make a decision to be happy.

2). You make a decision to work on yourself more instead of gossiping and blaming other people.

3). You let go of the need to worry about what other people think.

4). You let go of the labels.

5). You re-invent yourself by getting rid of people who don’t get you or don’t allow you to be You.



Authentic Is This:

1). Letting Go Of The Need To Be Right.

2.) Letting Go Of Any Assumptions Of How Things Are Going To Turn Out.

3). Letting Go Of Any Expectations.




Staying Grounded Is This:

1). Take off your socks and shoes twice a day and go barefoot on the grass or dirt.

2). Make sure that you are hydrating because most people never drink enough water.

3). Find passion in simple things that make your heart sing.




Why didn’t I write more about Hannah Brown’s screw-ups on The Bachelor?

Answer: Because that wasn’t the purpose of this blog posting….the posting was to get you happier by getting you to think about you.

Only You will know where life needs to take you and if you are like a lot of my followers and readers, you don’t live in the USA. For me? That has been the single most profound discovery that I have made about myself since returning from New Zealand in 2013.

What is that?

That everything I learned has affected me here in America and I can never go back to being that person that I was when I exited in June of 2013.

Now onto to something deeper I want you to think about……..

According To Alan Watts, Happiness Is NOT the Meaning of Life.

Listen to this audio and read the transcription below for the greater meaning.

Let’s suppose that you were able every night to dream any dream you wanted to dream.

And that you could, for example, have the power within one night to dream 75 years of time or any length of time you wanted to have.

And you would naturally as you began on this adventure of dreams, you would fulfill all your wishes, you would have every kind of pleasure.

And after several nights of 75 years of total pleasure each, you would say, Wow, that was pretty great. But now let’s, let’s have a surprise.

Let’s have a dream, which isn’t under control.

Well, something is going to happen to me that I don’t know what it’s going to be. And you will dig that and come out of that and say, Wow, that was a close shave, wasn’t it.

And then you will get more and more adventurous and you will make further and further Gamble’s as to what you would dream. And finally, you would dream where you are now you would dream the dream of living the life that you are actually living today.

That would be within the infinite multiplicity of choices you would have of playing that you weren’t God.

So then…

This means that you’re not victims of a scheme of things of a mechanical world, or of an autocratic God.

The life you’re living is what you put yourself into only you don’t admit it. Because you want to play the game that it’s happened to you.

Because if you play life on the supposition that you’re a helpless little puppet got involved. Or if you play it on the supposition that it’s a frightful, serious risk, and that we really ought to do something about it and so on. It’s a drag.

There’s no point in going on living unless we make the assumption that the situation of life is optimal. And it makes you realize you see how – how great things are. So in this idea that everybody is fundamentally the ultimate reality. Not God in a politically kingly sense, but God in the sense of being the self, that deep down basic, whatever there is, and you’re all that only you’re pretending you’re not.

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Freedom Of Speech Is On Life Support

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There is a new breed of American that sincerely knows everything that is happening and can’t bring themselves to knock on their neighbor’s door to speak the truth.

If you think you have Freedom of Speech in America look at the absolute constant attack on President Donald J. Trump.

How did a national treasurer as a successful entrepreneur and hit TV show star end up being attacked?

Please invest a few moments to watch and listen to what is truly happening in America. The American Press is so bad that there are more Americans who own Pet Chickens, more Practicing Witches, and Prostitutes than those watching CNN.



Characteristics of a Dystopian Society

    • • Propaganda is used to control the citizens of society.
    • • Information, independent thought, and freedom are restricted.
    • • A figurehead or concept is worshipped by the citizens of the society.
    • • Citizens are perceived to be under constant surveillance.
    • • Citizens have a fear of the outside world.

Types of Dystopian Controls
Most dystopian works present a world in which oppressive societal control and the illusion of a perfect society are maintained through one or more of the following types of controls:

• Corporate control: One or more large corporations control society through products, advertising, and/or the media. Examples include Minority Report and Running Man.

• Bureaucratic control: Society is controlled by a mindless bureaucracy through a tangle of red tape, relentless regulations, and incompetent government officials. Examples in the film include Brazil.

• Technological control: Society is controlled by technology—through computers, robots, and/or scientific means. Examples include The Matrix, The Terminator, and I, Robot.

• Philosophical/religious control: Society is controlled by philosophical or religious ideology often enforced through a dictatorship or theocratic government.

The Dystopian Protagonist
• often feels trapped and is struggling to escape.

• questions the existing social and political systems.

• believes or feels that something is terribly wrong with the society in which he or she lives.

• helps the audience recognizes the negative aspects of the dystopian world through his or her perspective.


What will you do to ensure that future generations don’t turn out to be like the movie 1984?

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In The End, We Are All Ass-Holes

Something that I found today by Mitch Santell

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When I saw this today I had to share it because in the end we are either pissed off at someone or someone is pissed off at us.

“Sorry bud, but that’s the way the cookie crumbles.”

If you’ve ever said this, any version of this douchey sentence or idea, you have succeeded in adequately pissing someone the f*ck off.

Sometime, somewhere, you didn’t give two sh*ts about anyone else’s feelings and worried solely about your own. You could see the other side — that person’s side — and you still didn’t give a damn.

Well, good for you. Way to stick to your guns and not give a second thought to someone else’s opinion or overly-dramatic feelings. Way to stick up for yourself.

Way to be an assh*le — I’m sorry, but if we all weren’t assh*les at one time or another, then the world would be run by a select few, and that’s so much worse.

It’s give and take. Sometimes you just need to be one, and sometimes you just need to learn to take one. Like oral sex, the system works best when we’re rotating turns.

Because if you’re never the assh*le, if you’re never pissing someone off, you’re just always the one getting sh*t on.

I can tell you from personal experience, once you start learning how to piss people off, life changes. Once you learn to stick up for yourself, to stop succumbing to the opinions of others, you see the other side.

It’s a side of plans you actually want, dinner at places you like to eat and limited time spent doing favors for people you hate.

Of course, I’m not saying that you should try to piss people off. Deliberately trying to be an assh*le is just poor form and those people are the ones who usually get what they deserve in the end.

But when you’re in a situation and it’s you or someone else, that person’s feelings or yours, your time or someone else’s, sometimes you just need to say f*ck you, I’m choosing me.

The day you stop caring about what other people think and start caring more about how you feel is the day you blossom into the assh*le you were destined to be. And trust me, life’s a lot better once you stop giving a sh*t.

IF THEY’RE REALLY YOUR FRIENDS, THEY’LL GET OVER IT

Pissing people off isn’t the same as f*cking them over. It’s like a pinch over a punch. People piss one another off — that’s how we learn who is worth tolerating and who isn’t worth forgiving.

If you did made a mistake or had to do something for yourself (without truly screwing them over), they should be able to understand that.

If they are true friends then they understand that sometimes we need to be selfish, sometimes we can’t worry about their opinions before our own.

IF THEY’RE THAT SENSITIVE, YOU DON’T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH THEM ANYWAY

Sensitive people are like bees — they sting once and die. No one wants to live life surrounded by weak people whose sole purpose in life is to find something to cry about.

Read more here:https://www.elitedaily.com/life/culture/better-piss-people-off-let-walk/912646

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After Feminism, Now What?

A Commentary That I Have Been Thinking About For A Long Time By Mitch Santell

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Would You Marry Any Of These Women?

The all-out battle that is brewing here in Washington, D.C. is simply a circus. The sooner that you turn off your TV (Tell-Lie-Vision), the sooner you will get your life back.

Even the hearings in Washington D.C. don’t make sense anymore.

America has moved way past the feminist movement with a public discourse of dialogue that makes most American’s feel disgusted.

Eastern Europe supplied millions of new citizens into the USA at the turn of the century back in 1900. Now we look ahead to 2019 and what do we see? We have a storm that is brewing. The name-calling and division in our nation’s Capital here I believe are simply on purpose and too upset people.

These democratic extremists want to wipe European Americans, especially the “White Ones” off the map.

The majority of women that I know who are out in the world are miserable. I have never experienced anything like it. Men are walking away from long term relationships at astounding rates simply because these men have no rights.

One person on YouTube wrote this:

Women finally realize feminism has failed. They see themselves becoming a ever increasing minority in their own country aging looks are eroding fast and they know there will not be SS## when they retire. They don’t have kids and/or not enough to take care of them. What is even worse is the way they raised the kids they do have.

I suggest surrogacy and adoption of white babies, you may not have a place in the white future when you become a minority.


Feminism has failed and needs a radical rethink
http://bit.ly/2JPVrFu

Feminism has Failed; Virtually Every Aspect of the Feminist Movement Has Backfired
https://yhoo.it/2OoDW4P

There Is Scientific Proof That Feminism Is Failing Women
http://bit.ly/2XVmV6l


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Chemtrails And Aluminum Harm Heart, Lungs And Plants

Guest Posting by Ted Twietmeyer

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Picture of Spraying Over Colorado 2019.

Chemtrails which are known to contain heavy metals such as barium oxide and aluminum oxide, are known to be a bigger problem than once thought. Others have researched chemtrails at great length, but may not have known about the negative effects on ecology, the environment and human beings which have recently been discovered.

This essay is meant to create awareness, not panic.

Have you ever been standing at a gas station pump, waiting for your vehicle to fill up out in the country in what you thought was clean, fresh air? Did you also notice the top surface of the pump housing may have been covered with rough grey dust? Much of that material can be from chemtrail fallout from aluminum and barium oxide. What goes up, must come down. And all of us are breathing it. Sickness almost always visits communities within a 1-3 days after the spraying has taken place. Headaches, coughs that won’t go away, sore throats and head and upper chest congestion are not uncommon. Your body does not want this metal embedding itself in your respiratory tract. It becomes an irritant.

Recent research shows that aluminum oxide which is a heavy metal, can do far more damage to human beings than once thought. The metal can also affect plants, and is far more insidious than once thought.

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EFFECTS OF ALUMINUM OXIDE ON HEART AND LUNGS

A paper written by Wardle, Lee, Akester, and Braithwaite at Thiokol Corp. warns of hazards from aluminum oxide nanoparticles. In their paper, they express concern that epidemiological studies suggest an association between inhaled ambient particulate material and adverse cardiopulmonary (heart and lungs) effects. The mechanisms related to this toxicity are still unclear. Their paper shows methods to control ultra-fine particles, to limit inhaled nanoparticles in humans.[1]

EFFECTS OF ALUMINUM ON ECOLOGY

Is the government silent about the negative effects of aluminum? From the EPA website, we read the following about acid effects and aluminum. The 22-page paper contains numerous references to scientific papers which are available at the EPA website:

“Acid deposition can occur in the wet or dry form and can adversely affect aquatic resources through the acidification of water bodies and watersheds. Acidification of aquatic ecosystems is of primary concern because of the adverse effects of low pH and associated high aluminum concentrations on fish and other aquatic organisms.”

“Aluminum which can be toxic to organisms is soluble at low pH and is leached from watershed soils by acidic deposition. Acidification may affect fish in several ways. The direct physiological effects of low pH and high aluminum include increased fish mortality, decreased growth, and decreased reproductive potential. The mechanism of toxicity involves impaired ion regulation at the gill. Population losses occur frequently because of recruitment failure, specifically due to increased mortality of early life stages. Changes at other trophic levels may affect fish populations by altering food availability.”

Read more here: http://bit.ly/2EYW1z3


What are they spraying? http://bit.ly/2wDGxvU

 

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Now let’s focus on a solution, shall we? Here is a video I found today. There are a lot of people that I know here in Southern California that are having issues with coughing. Maybe this will help. Take a look at the video and then click on the link. No, I don’t sell this product but I do think it may help. Peace to you all.

Here is a link to purchase the product he is talking about: http://bit.ly/2K1312x

Let me know if you have good luck with this remedy. I plan on getting some myself.

 

Knowing When It Is Time To Say Goodbye

Commentary About Friendships and Relationships by Mitch Santell

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Are you still breaking bread?

Connections with people are very funny things, aren’t they? Sometimes you meet someone and you feel like you have known them their whole life while others are more like passing ships in the night. Throughout our life, we meet so many people who are either positive, negative or neutral to who we are.

The ability to maintain friendships has never been easier because of social media and yet I know so many who are hurting, it comes down to breaking bread together. In our family, we always broke bread together. From the time I was small, I was even taught the importance of breaking bread in business.


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When we were younger, we cycled through our interactions quickly: best friends, friend groups, relationships even. As we mature, unimportant relationships and friendships have fallen away and the few close ones have withstood the test of time. Along the way, you’ve probably let go of someone you never thought you’d say goodbye to. You’ve probably let go of someone you never wanted to say goodbye to.

It’s easy feel possessive of the people you love. The two of you have spent so much time together, bonded over silly and not so silly things, made a deep connection in a world full of so many people. So when it ends — whether it’s mutual, for good reasons, or just a slow fade — it just doesn’t feel right. But it happened and you’ll come to terms with it eventually. I never like the term letting them go or moving on. Especially since I loved them so deeply, it just didn’t make sense to me. Over the years I’ve realized that it’s not cutting someone off, it’s just loving them quieter.

Loving someone is usually loud. It’s tight hugs, late night calls, laughing candid photos, “I miss you” texts in caps. Learning to love quieter is actually not doing these things that once showed them that you care. It’s actively not doing these things, because you care. You care about their well-being, and allowing them to walk away if all has been said and there is nothing more to salvage. So you begin loving them from a distance.

You start with texting them less. You get the urge to when you pass by their favorite coffeeshop, see someone with the same dress as them, mundane things that used to be normal. You stop liking their social media posts or even looking at their feed because it just hurts. You want to be angry. You want to scream and yell and make them understand how much it all just sucks, but you know deep down it’s only because you care so much. So swallow that anger, it’ll pass.

Read more here: http://bit.ly/2QHJKnh


I am done good bye


 

America’s Upcoming Civil War In 2025

Commentary That Burdens My Heart by Mitch Santell

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This is Abraham Lincoln In Case You Are In A Common Core School.

The United States of America is now witnessing and experiencing a massive transition in its culture, borders, and language.

If you are reading this blog outside of America (thank you so much), you probably are wondering what it feels like here.

We are divided.

Very divided.

We are in a soft war that could quickly grow hot.

I’ll be writing on this topic as things shift here in America!


Three years ago I was looking at comments then during the 2016 Presidential Election. Here is a link discussing the Civil War, check it out: http://bit.ly/2Woaxug


Parting Shot:

Why do you think that the Deagle Website shows a massive reduction in the USA Population in 2025?

Why does it show that America will shift from 327 Million down to 100 Million?

For those of us who want our grandchildren, I have 3 to have a future, we better get the word out now.

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This has been listed at Deagel.com since 2013.

Here is the link in case you don’t believe me:

http://www.deagel.com/country/United-States-of-America_c0001.aspx


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Dystopian Battle Between Men & Women

Commentary by Mitch Santell

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The false narrative of romance on social media is a joke to me. That’s right, it is an absolute fake narrative.

Over the past few years, I have connected with couples who initially met on FaceBook or Twitter or Instagram.

What are the chances that these relationships will work out? Minimal chance based on what I have observed.

If you have met someone this way be careful that the person is simply not presenting or pitching a lifestyle that is not their own.

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Social media is what I’d call a romance contraceptive. It prevents romance from happening every single day.

Every day when I’m out and about, I’ll see people in elevators, I’ll see people in grocery stores, coffee shops, and at restaurants. And they’re all checking Facebook! Or they’re tweeting something to their 3.7 followers. We’ve become a society of people who are obsessed with what’s happening in the imaginary world.

Facebook is an imaginary world.

Checking in on what your friends are doing at noon when you can be flirting with a handsome stranger or the cute girl next to you in line at Starbucks is a complete social block.

Just the other day, I was in a supermarket in Los Angeles and I saw this guy checking out this girl. He was standing next to her in line at the juice bar. He kept looking at her, and she kept looking down … at the Facebook app on her iPhone.

Now, I know some of you right now are thinking, maybe she wasn’t interested. That wasn’t the issue. Because what I’m about to share with you is something most of you have probably done.

He gave up and disappeared. But I was crazy curious so I stood next to her in line and got real close and peeked at what she was typing into her phone.

Her status update: When am I going to meet a nice guy? It seems like all the good men are taken.

Think about what just happened.

She complained about not finding good men, but here was an interested man, standing next to her. Now, granted, nobody knows if the romance would have worked, but think about this: for every moment that you’re checking your Twitter feed, or your so-called friends’ updates on Facebook, you’re missing another opportunity to connect with somebody in real life … which could be another opportunity to fall in love.

Wake up, and walk away from the social media every once in a while. Drop the smartphone. It’s not making you smart; it’s actually making you pretty dumb. Save the social media checking for when you’re home. When you’re out and about, drop it, and be uncomfortable again. Sit in a restaurant, and look around, but don’t read Facebook: be present, and smile at the people that are around you. We don’t need to be constantly doing things on our phones.

So, my advice to all of you who would like to find romance this holiday season: Leave the phone at home. Sit with the discomfort of being without your contraceptive coping aid — the smartphone — and start looking at all the available people that have been there the whole time wanting to meet you. Then, maybe you will return home and type a status update like this:

You wouldn’t believe what happened today in Starbucks, I met the most amazing person; I can’t wait to see him tonight.

More here: https://nyti.ms/2VF8O47

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The Best Noise Of All Is Silence

Reflections On When To Remain Silent by Mitch Santell

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There are days where I think about things but don’t really know how to put them in writing. Then I go out over to the internet, and I find the perfect sequence of words that express what I am feeling in the moment.

Here is what I found today:

Don’t make it your life’s mission to find out why someone did you wrong. Make it your life’s mission to be so resilient and sure of who you are that you no longer need answers from others for their actions. Be so confident in who you are as a person that you are able to walk away from things that no longer serve you with your head held high. You don’t owe others explanations, and unfortunately they don’t owe you one either. Take that silence as protection from words that would have done more harm than good. Silence is sometimes the best thing that person could have given you because for the most part their words never really held their weight in the first place. Stop searching so hard for words of healing from people who hurt you in the first place. The person who broke you, will never be the one to fix you.

Read more here: https://bit.ly/2TWf8n6


Here is my take: Do not let a person, a particular situation or an incident knock you down. There are so many times where we want to get out our point of view across that the person on the other side of the equation can only hear static.

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Exodus 2: The Underlying Reason for The Movement

The divide between men and women feels out of control to me. This post is not for the faint of heart. This post goes beyond race, color or creed. When I read this, it was from a perspective I had never thought of before and had to share it. Let me know your thoughts and feel free to share with others.

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So I apparently hit a nerve again.

The truth has a tendency to do that.

I took a break to focus on myself, to heal, to meditate, to relax, to listen to some Teddy Pendergrass and to focus on the changing atmosphere in Trump’s America. Hard times are coming and many of us are woefully unprepared.

I’ve gotten a slew of letters from blacks, whites, men and women, asking me for dialogue and what made me, of all people, come to this point in my life where I’m finally writing about this…

I have this uncanny ability to make people be at total ease. They tell me things about themselves. Their lives, their failures, their pain and their struggles. Over the past few years, I’ve sat and read and listened to black women say the same things over and over again like clockwork.

“It was my uncle that…

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