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These are questions that may give you pause to think.

There is a weird pattern that happens when people are locked into their own thoughts. Think about it okay? Why do you believe what you believe? Who taught you what you know? Did you listen to your parents or elders or go off on your own? Has your iPhone cloned you off?

The more answers I get, the more questions I have.

Today, as usual, I discovered another blog that I have started following.

Check out this blog posting as I place it here for inspiration. There is a link at the bottom of the posting so you can follow this blog too.

Millennials are a fantastic group of young people. To me, I respect them as much as I do, Baby Boomers, my own group. You see, us Baby Boomers get blamed a lot for the world we live in now but here is something I’ll tell you that most baby boomers won’t.

Ready?

The world we live in now was created by Baby Boomers because our parents basically gave us everything we wanted but it came with a price.

What was that price?

Baby Boomers, for the most part, showed up for our parents. The Millennials exited their parent’s lives never to return.

Why did they do this?

Answer: Millennials have to learn lessons that their parents can’t give them because they were replaced by Technology.

What will you do with the time you have left?

The reason I am reposting this is that at 62 Years of Age. Thank you God, I made it this far! In order to survive what is coming, I have to live like a Grey Man and I have to think like Millennials think.

Here is the lesson I found and repost here:

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30 Lessons to Live by

While I believe there’s truth to the statement ‘you learn through experience’ I also believe there’s truth to the idea of learning from other’s mistakes, gaining from other’s wisdom and becoming who we are thanks to those we surround ourselves with.

Even if they might sound cliche, there’s plenty of life lessons that can be learned from the simple act of listening/reading. In a lot of cases you might already know these lessons. In a lot of cases, it’s just a matter of re-reading it to put it top of mind.

Here are 30 lessons to live by that withstand the test of time:

  1. You are not your parents. As much as people might try to tell you that you’re just like them… you are not, I repeat YOU ARE NOT, doomed to repeat their mistakes or force yourself into the same situations as they are/were in. Be yourself, don’t try to become them.
  2. Collect moments, not things. Memories are the only currency we have that doesn’t diminish in value with time. While tangible objects collect dust and can invariably disappoint over the years, our memories never dim, nor fade. They forever live on in our minds with a bittersweet sense of belonging.
  3. A man is not a financial plan. This one comes directly from my mother. Trying to hinge your bets on living off someone else is an insecure way to live. Make sure that you’re capable of looking after yourself financially, then your partner can add to your life, not control it.
  4. Debt isn’t worth it. Buying things you cannot afford might fix your problems in the short-term, but long term will give you nothing more than stress and anxiety.
  5. Failure is growth. Society tends to tell us that failure is a bad thing and that’s really not the case. So long as you’re learning from your failure, you’re growing as a person. Learn from your failure and you’ll appreciate your success so much more when you accomplish it.
  6. Comparison is the thief of joy. As cliche as it sounds, it’s true. Don’t compare your step one to someone else’s success. [Insert Name Here] might be a billionaire at 20, that doesn’t mean you’re a failure if you’re not.
  7. Change is good. Even when it seems like it sucks. Remaining stagnant in a world where change is all around you is a naive failure to flow with the natural order of the world.
  8. Age is just a number. Don’t ever discount someone because of their age. Age does not tell you intelligence, competence, capability, confidence, or anything about a person beyond the year they were born.
  9. Body positivity has zero to do with what you believe is attractive. Body positivity is a respect for the human body and what it does for a person. What you find attractive in a person has NOTHING to do with treating people with respect and appreciating what your body does for you and their body does for them.
  10. If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. There’s no need, reason or excuse for being rude, mean or demoralizing. If you can’t be kind, keep your mouth shut.
  11. Putting up walls diminishes authenticity. Creating a persona to shield yourself from surrounding judgment, or potential judgment, diminishes the integral aspects of who you are. Don’t let your true self fade behind the walls you build.
  12. Exercise contributes to every aspect of your well being – physically, mentally and emotionally. It improves your health and your outlook. It forces much needed serotonin on your brain and can vastly benefit your outlook towards the world.
  13. Giving love is one of the best gifts you can give. Receiving love is one of the best gifts you can receive. Never underestimate the value of love.
  14. You get more from giving more. Success doesn’t come from seeing how much you can take. If you want to live a life of abundance, give with grace and give as much as you can.
  15. Even if you’re questioning whether to let your head or your heart decide, ensure you listen to your head. That tiny-voice inside of you always knows what’s right.
  16. Grudges cause nothing but pain. Allow yourself to move on from the past. Remember that just because you forgive does not mean that you need to forget. You can forgive someone and not carry the weight of the pain they caused whilst remembering so that you don’t ever have to suffer that same pain twice.
  17. Travel makes you more interesting, insightful and accepting person. You learn when you see how others experience and you become more open to things beyond what you could ever imagine. Travel and travel often.
  18. You aren’t always right. There’s always more than one version to the story. Practice humility and remember that you’re wrong sometimes, too.
  19. You define your life. If you want it to be meaningful, make it meaningful. If you don’t, you won’t.
  20. You cannot control others, only yourself. Make sure that you’re a positive example of what you want the world to be.
  21. Gratitude multiplies happiness. Consciously focusing on what you have, rather than what you don’t, is the best use of your brain.
  22. Please yourself first. Don’t wait for approval from others in order to look after yourself. Just like no one in this world can make us feel as bad as we can, no one in this world can make us feel as good as we can.
  23. Self-awareness is more valuable then personal achievement.
  24. Knowledge is power. The more you learn, the more you earn. The more you know, the more you bring to the table. The more insightful you can be, the more tolerant and understanding you are. Don’t ever stop learning.
  25. If you want something done right, do it yourself. You know what’s right for you. Don’t try to pass it off on someone else if you know you’re more than capable.
  26. Your thoughts are like boomerangs. What you put out into the universe will come right back to you. What do you want coming back?
  27. The easy road is never that. Trying to take the easy way out is like trying to cheat the system. In the end, it’s going to come back to haunt you.
  28. Honesty, even when it hurts, is far better than any lie, comforting or not.
  29. If someone shows you who they really are, believe them the first time. I’ve heard this quoted to Mya Angelou. She’s pretty darn right on the money when it comes to this quote. Offering second chances always seems to show you what you already know/knew.
  30. Make every day count. You never know when it will be your last.

Link to original post: https://millenniallifecrisis.org/2019/07/18/30-lessons-to-live-by/

Editors note:

So many blogs are disappearing so quickly that I posted everything on my blog so if the original goes offline, at least you can read it here at https://afterhollywood.online/

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2 thoughts on “#HateHoax

  1. You’ve got me thinking now. I’ve always felt like my parents had a hard time dealing with the fact that I didn’t want to ‘show up’ for them. Perhaps, though, I’ve done just that by dropping everything and returning to see my mom through cancer. I think you’re right though. I think my parents just expected it, because that’s what they did for their parents. I think that’s a lot of what differentiates our generations. We can’t see eye-to-eye on this type of stuff. I don’t know… I’m rambling now.

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    1. Thanks for writing to me V. I really appreciate it. The best part of your communication (drum roll), is that I got you thinking. You are giving your Mom a huge gift. Regardless of our upbringing, we need to honor our Mother and Father. I refinanced my house not once but twice so I could be with my Dad during the last year of his life. When I asked my Mom what I could do to help her most, her response was “Be with your Dad.” Good for you for doing this. It’s such a blessing.

      Remember, 2019 is a huge transitional year for America and for our families.

      On of my favorite cousins who was my Dad’s partner has throat cancer and starts Radiation tomorrow.

      In order to support Him during his Therapy, I have been sending pictures of my Dad and what his life was like in his 30’s. Please note, the more You ramble, the more you will wake up. Take good care and feel free to comment at my ramblings here at AfterHollywood.Online

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